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I wish you could have a relationship without money, and most importantly without talking about money. It would just make life so much more easier, no fighting no arguing, I think it would erradicate a lot of meaningless lovers tiffs.

Me and my boyfriend have this problem we both know exactly how much we both get per week, Which then makes spending the money uncomfortable. We get faced with questions like,

Why did you buy that sneaky doughnut before work instead of eating breakfast? HELLO BECAUSE I WANTED TO.

Why did you get a take away today? you know your wasting money? BECAUSE I FINISHED LATE AND WANTED IT.

Why did you buy the more expensive cigarettes and waste our money? (I don't smoke my boyfriend does)

If we both were completely oblivious to each others finances we wouldn't have to worry about having the answers to these questions.  Yesterday for example I started the day with 150 Euro in my purse, by tonight i had 100.  My boyfriends like where did 50 euro go?

Cough medicine, (still suffering from the flue)

Spot cream (Tea tree witch Hazel spot wand)

Cinema tickets

Bus ticket

Train tickets

Take away

2 work lunches

Face wipes

a bottle of coke

and maybe a bunch of other things i forgot

But in my opinion its my money its my problem if i spend it on a load of unneccary crap. You know how my parents deal with this crap? They both have separate bank accounts. They never explain what happened with there money. Thats the way I want to be one day. just like them. I pay for certain bills and my husband would pay for other bills and no questions would ever be asked. How do you guys deal with this? There has to be other easy solutions.

Trip down memory lane

This week has been quite traumatic for me, My sister decided that we are going to redecorate our bedroom and everything must go. So we started the massive clear out on Monday, I had to say good bye to my Sylvanian families collection, Beanie Baby collection,  Cabbage patch kids collection and Pokemon sticker collection and so on.

I didn't want to throw away anything. I wanted to keep the old battered desk and chair, the old dolls cot. everything!!!! but my sister pushed and pushed until it was all gone and until I had no choice but to accept that yes I am passed it.

But nevertheless during the big massive clear out, I did find somethings that, although they were not lost, they were forgotten and discarded such as my good old Gameboy colour, that I hadn't seen for about a century and penpal letters from when i was 15.

I held onto them. and now I think i have the penpal bug again. I think I want to start penpaling again. I haven't asked my boyfriend about it yet. But i still remember the old penpal website i used to use.

I brought my old gameboy to my boyfriends appartment and he got really excited and told me about how when he was a kid his neighbour had relatives living in Japan who sent one to his nieghbour and he begged his mom to buy one but they were always to expensive... Anyway now he has decided he wants to get a gameboy the new one Nintendo Gameboy 3DS I

I think its a really bad idea lol. He will be glued to it. and its sure to bring about a load of fights.

Anyway the decorators arrived on wednesday morning and our new colour scheme is purple. You name it, bed cover, curtains, wallpaper, chair, dressing table, mirror, lamp, lamp shade etc to be honest i didn't get much say in the matter I personally would of gone for turquoise but nevermind. When its all finished I will take a picture!